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Posted by J We think about the emotional toll that the affairs take on us. We talk about it all the time. But, what about the monitary toll it has taken? You lost your home because he was stupid. It wasn't your fault, you didn't do it, but you still have to pay the price. Me, my ex thought I was having an affair with his best friend. What actually happened is I found out the guy was trafficing in kiddie porn, and I turned his butt in. He ended up in prison for 8 yrs. The guy's wife told R, that I was having an affair with him. Yes, this was revenge on their part. So, what does R do? he turns around and has his first affair to get back at me for something I've never done. I confronted the guy with it a few months back, yes he's out of prison now, you know what he said? He laughed when I told him what happened. He said he originally hoped that R would just divorce me. But, what happened was even better. I had to pay double, I lost my husband and my life because I did the right thing. Oh R, he believes me now. But, I think its to late. I found out that the whole time we were married he never trusted me. He expected me to have an affair because his ex wife did, and all his girlfriends before her cheated on him. He thought that's what women did to get out of relationships. He thought he'd get me before I got him. Can you imagine that? I still shake my head when I think about it. J
on 10/21/2004, 2:07 pm, in reply to "just a down time."
This is just my humble opinion, but I think you should tell him how much it hurts you. Its so amazing to me how much our spouse's having affairs costs "us".
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