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Like Roseanne said look for a support group in your area and also, what I did, was call the Onc Surgeon's office and asked if there was anyone in my area that was going through what I would be. They hooked me up with a gal that had her's 6 weeks before me and that helped a lot.
Also, ask any questions here....these girls knows it. Hugs & Prayers, Ruby