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Posted by Annie on 2/22/2007, 8:00 am
I know i have hit a low point within myself and the relationship. I completely lost my self-esteem and am trying to regain it. I have not brought things up to him, but last night he could tell I was upset. I told him it was crap from this weekend that I could not shake. His mind days ago-let it go. My mind-painful-ways to work through it. He told me I was a wreck and that maybe I should live by myself-that way no one would hurt me. then he goes on to say that he is sick of fightting once a week-it is a pain in his a**. Well-no kidding I don't want to either-but he causes most of it, by being insensitive and selfish. He told me originally that he did not talk to me for 4 hours in the car, because he was mad at his dad-then last night he says that maybe I was annoying him too. I KNOW I did NOT say a word to annoy him-I just sat there. So now I feel like no matter what I do I annoy him, he does not want to be near me, keeps busy etc. He used to be so affectionate, loving etc. Now he is just being cold-hearted and off course that makes me want to hold on tighter (but I don't) He doesn't see it though-he thinks it is me coming down on him about everything. He is just being a jerk lately-bigtime. Then he will flip the switch and be all lovey dovey. Too confusing. He will blame my sadness on being a girl, being that time of the month, my job-anything but himself.
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