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From Commitment Phobe to "I Do"!
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getting that long overdue and much deserved commitment!

Re: Julia

Posted by Julia on 2/21/2007, 8:45 pm, in reply to "Julia"

Thank you, Hanna, for your astute intuition. You are correct on all counts, I practice what I preach and have lived through every experience, joyful and painful, that brought me here, to this place in time, and this board, too. Self-esteem, oh so easy to give it away without even realizing it, and oh so important to take it back, without having to punish anyone, not oneself, not others. When we give it all away, we have to learn to bring it back and accept the lessons as GIFTS. Yeah, they are gifts of wisdom. We can stay stuck in fury and shame, or we can move out of it and re-center ourselves so that we can live with ourselves again AND others can love us and live with us, too.... without giving everything away again. If only REAL self-esteem was packaged and provided on the open market to all who need it - especially to women! What a world it would be. There would be no Britney in the news, either. What a better world... Thanks, Hanna

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From Commitment Phobe to "I Do"!
A strategic ten-step plan for winning your CP's heart and
getting that long overdue and much deserved commitment!