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Posted by kk on 2/19/2007, 3:27 pm, in reply to "kk" I think you will continuously go through this up and down thing. Then again - on a totally different thought - do you notice - some people are NEVER happy in relationships - there is always "something" that is wrong. That's basically how I felt with my past relationships. I ALWAYS "focused" on the bad instead of the good - sometimes I think you do that too. Because if it REALLY WAS that bad with him - you would get out - I am sure you broke off relationships before - when you are done, you are DONE - there is NOTHING that will stop you! So there must be SOME good that is still in this relationship or else you would get out. It's just that people let the death of a relationship DRAAAAGGGGG ONNNN. It's so frightening to make that break that sometimes it takes YEARS of going through exactly what you describe in all of your posts before someone will do something about it. That's why they say when someone finally leaves - they actually left A LONG TIME AGO!
I also think that this is definately a guy thing. They think that once you talk about it, it's over - it wipes the whole thing away. But women take more time to heal emotionally.
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