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From Commitment Phobe to "I
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A strategic ten-step plan for winning your CP's heart and
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Posted by Too Nice on 2/19/2007, 2:49 pm, in reply to "Lorelei"
Annie my real fear and concern here is that since you have found a way to adapt and adjust (albeit maladjusted) to this dysfuntional situation, that you have lost all perspective in what real, healthy love is about, especially self love and care. The longer you tolerate this situation, (adapt, and mutate) the weaker you become, until all sense of self is lost. This coping mechanism you have adopted also encourages abusive cconditioning, which ultimately renders a person helpless. The longer you stay, the harder it becomes to leave, the less you understand the real reasons for leaving, and before you know it, you have reached a point of no return. Please don't let this happen to you. You have more power and control than you realize.
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