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Posted by Too Nice on 2/19/2007, 7:54 am, in reply to "Shame on him Shame on you" No one needs a man to complete them, especially on this forum-we are looking too hard at things they do not even care about. They do not care about themselves. That is what we are failing to recognize. We analyze their every word, action etc. When we should be buliding a good life for oursleves, by ourselves and then when a good guy does come into our lives we will see it, want it, appreciate it, love it, deserve it and they will do just the same. Until then it will be an endless cycle of misery and we are all too wise to keep going through this. For the most part I agree with this, as it applies to you that is. I don't agree with the "that's what WE are failing to recognize". I don't get the WE part in your statement. I really don't. I have seen the PUT THE FOCUS ON YOU message delivered to you loud and clear in every form possible from numerous wise women here, and if all you got out of that was a WE message, then you are still missing the point. Even with the wise words of your noble Grandfather, and the same messages from the wise women here ( at least a dozen times), What has really changed for YOU Annie? What have YOU really done about it? The point being that anyone can find some wise words and spin them around, and at the end of the day they still won't be any wiser. As you know by now, WORDS are meaningless. It's only when you put them into action will you ever GET anywhere, or get something out of them. Thus far you are just playing word games. My prediction is that nothing will change for you until YOU love yourself. IMO that is the core of this problem. It doesn't have one thing to do with your b/f. I sincerely wish you the best. One day you will tire of the "crying wolf", and start doing things differently. Better than that, when you really start loving yourself, your whole life will change.
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