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Posted by Hanna on 2/19/2007, 6:21 am, in reply to "What his mother said--irritated" At some point, when you decide to stop complaining and make a decision to take action, perhaps your life will change. This man is not going to change. Either you can accept him for whom he is and take complete control of your life, or you can allow yourself to remain his victim. The decision to take control of your own life and your own happiness is entirely yours. It's not bad to vent, but to vent without digging deeper, to complain, to hold so much anger inside, is NOT going to make your life any better. This man doesn't have to make you happy, in fact, he doesn't feel the need to consider your feelings or contentment within your relationship. Only you can change your life. No one else is responsible for your happiness, not him, not his mother, not his friends. If they hurt you, and obviously they do, then why you keep people in your life who bring you so much pain? Hugs, Hanna
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