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Posted by Lorelei on 2/19/2007, 1:10 am, in reply to "What his mother said--irritated" I don't think your boyfriend loves you. His actions certainly don't suggest it, and yet you stand your ground no matter how bad his behavior towards you hurts. I think he's hoping you will leave without having to come right out and ask you, b/c that way he diminishes the guilt he feels for not wanting to live with you anymore. "Why do I cling, hopelessly, to a man who doesn't love or cherish me in a relationship that doesn't even begin to meet my emotional needs?" That's the 100,000 question you should be asking YOURSELF! All those other questions you keep asking us for answers to (his Mother), are just detours taking you down the wrong road. I don't feel sorry for you at all. How bad is it going to have to get for you to walk out the door on your own? As things stand....I think he'll have to pony-up and kick you out somehow, b/c the man doesn't love you -- its apparent to me. Question is -- how much worse is his behavior towards you have to get, before you say ENOUGH?? Codependency....the "other" addiction. Lorelei
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