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From Commitment Phobe to "I
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Posted by Lorelei on 2/16/2007, 12:37 pm, in reply to "MEN ARE SOoooooo Predictable!!!!!!!" You're lucky, so count your blessings. The baby basically seals the deal between those your ex and the other woman. Don't be mad at the orther woman, by the way. She didn't cheat on you -- he did. REMEMBER THAT NEXT TIME YOU FEEL THE URGE TO RESPOND TO HIS PALTRY, SELF-ABSORBED CONTACT IN ANY WAY! If you do respond -- YOU LOSE! You're ex-cheater/boyfriend has been compromised by his actions. Now his commitmentphobia will gather steam and momentum, b/c he can't dump his progeny, like he can the women in his life. The child is HIS for life. This man has NOTHING to offer you, except heartbreak. You're NOT special to him. He lied and cheated on you -- REPEATEDLY. So, what was so great about your experience with him that makes you even MISS anything about him? I think you miss the FANTASY of his potential. Well, too late for that. He's made his bed -- PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE LEAVE HIM BE TO LIE IN IT FOR LIFE! You've got to start FOCUSING on something else! Change your phone #; change your email address...do this and much more for YOU!!!!!! As long as YOU know he can reach out and touch you, at whim, you're healing process is going to be compromised. You're addicted to this man, Girl! You're codependent on him, otherwise you'd have left him in the dust by now after you found out about the cheating through the birth of the baby! He's your drug, just like an alcoholics drug is alcohol. Keep posting, b/c I for one am NOT going to collude with you on the FANTASY! Your guy is typical CP -- low class and a consumate liar. Lorelei
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