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Posted by AimeefromMD on 2/15/2007, 6:04 pm, in reply to "Re: CP did it again on Valentine's Day!"
Dear Miss NYC,
You are right; he won't change. That is hard to accept, but it is true. In those 5 years, when he would start dwindling away...I'd break it off...then he'd find a way to contact me...and I would give in. It took him 3 years to finally say he loved me...it was only after 3 key figures in his life passed away that he realized I was there for him through thick and thin. After he was able to say it...it was only sporadically. When we finally broke up when I moved away (career decision)...he says he loves me like a sister? Just couldn't fathom that statement. It still haunts me, but you know...it opened my eyes! This man is not worth anymore of my grief nor my tears.
He still has some of my stuff that I left behind at his house. I went home in January for business, to see my folks, and TM'd him to send it while I was home. He called me to tell me that he forgot and that he would hold onto it until I returned for good in March. He wanted to meet up with me to give it in person, but I declined. Well, I will be glad when he sends it, i.e.the final end. If he doesn't return the stuff like he promised, I am striking it off as a loss. I have decided not to contact him anymore. I still care for him deeply, but I am truly done. As my best friend always says...There's a 'raisin' for everything. My indifference now in not replying to his text today is proof...I'm making progress. You will too. Onward and Upward Sistah, Aimee
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