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From Commitment Phobe to "I
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A strategic ten-step plan for winning your CP's heart and
getting that long overdue and much deserved commitment!
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Posted by Lorelei on 2/15/2007, 2:11 pm, in reply to "CP did it again on Valentine's Day!" My first suggestion is for you to go out and purchase a couple of really great books. 1) Men Who Can't Love, by Stephen Carter & Julia Sokol. 2) Facing Love Addiction, by Pia Mellody (this book will tell you why you were attracted to a man who couldn't love you for the past 12 years). 3) Women Who Love Too Much, by Robin Norwood. (I would suggest you buy the companion book, Meditations for Women Who Love Too Much, too). You'll see yourself in the entire book. It doesn't surprise me that this man compartmentalized you more and more over a period of 12 years. You can't control what HE does. But, you can ALWAYS control what you do. So, first order of business is to cut him off COMPLETELY! NO CONTACT! NONE! No texts; no responding to calls or texts; and no nothing. And buy the books, b/c you do need help. You allowed this for 12 years...now you have to find out the reason why! Best of luck, Lorelei
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