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Posted by Annie on 2/13/2007, 1:59 pm
I have a question about this, because when I do stand my ground it pushes him away. He tells me that I am tough, mean, hurt his feelings, put him in his place. Then he says after a couple of days pass he gets what I am trying to do and he actually likes it, because I AM putting him in his place and he says he knows he needs it. When I do not say anything he of course think everything is great, but as soon as I say that I am mad about something he freaks out and it is a struggle and too much for him to handle. I feel like either way I am screwed, not to sound like the victim here. But if I remain silent I go nuts, if I speak my mind he shuts down. How do I get the pwer back for MYSELF with him? Is it possible or have I set the tone for how this relationship is? Man I am stressed to the core and of coure he has no idea I am feeling this way-he is perfectly fine.
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