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Posted by Annie on 2/10/2007, 12:01 pm
Hi guys-I have not been here in a few. I am still living with my bf and it has pretty much been rocky ever since the New Year. It is the same ol-same ol-he does what he wants when he wants. He is very outdoorsy so he does things with his friends-ice fishing-that sort of thing. I am outdoorsy too and went ice fishing with him once, but come on-doesn't he want to do more. How about we go snowmobiling-I even suggested it-go see friends of mine and at first he said yes and then he said no-he did not have any money and why didn't I just go. Last week he said he would take me to dinner and a movie and instead he told me that his friend got tickets to go see some wrestling fight crap and did I want to go to that instead. I said no and stayed home by myself. He stayed out until about 3 in the morning. He says since we live together that we see eachother all the time-yeah we SEE eachother, but we do not DO anything-there is a big difference. If I say anything-then I am always badgering him he says. When we are together he barely says anything-but as soon as he gets around his friends-he lits up. Now I rarely have days off and I have today off and instead of hanging out and doing something with me-he went ice fishing again. It does not register with him at all. I am home alone alot, bored a ton. I have old friends who are married with kids that I could go visit-but it just doesn't appeal to me. I could go sit over my sister's, but that is not all that exciting either. My bf never does what I want to do and he is constantly with his friends. I feel like if I want to see him than I have to tag along. We are in our 30s-it is not college. I guess I am different-if he had the day off I would want to do something with him. I wouldn't call my sister and go shop for the day. He just gave me a hug, told me he loves me and tha the will see me later tonight. He even invited me to go, but why the heck would I want to go sit in the freezing cold and fish? That is like me asking him to go to the spa for the day.
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