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Posted by Sally on 2/9/2007, 5:22 pm This girl is great decorator. Before she got divorced she had a 1.5M house, gorgeous, all her own decorating. She fixed up condo she has now, its VERY nice, VERY tastefully done. Why does she need help with bathroom tiles now ? You got to be kidding! 3rd time she called I just said 'look I love tumbled marble, that is what I picked out when I re-did bathrooms ... its natural stone, any of it would be nice, the people in the tile store can give you advice if you need it.' I have another call coming in, I really have to go. Maybe she is trying to prove to herself she hasn't THROWN the entire life she had before meeting him, out the window. Still will keep all the old connections, I will be her cheerleader as I was during her ugly divorce. She is moving over an hour away, to a location that is NOTHING like where she raised her kids, & been living, knows noone up there but him. EVERYTHING is going to change. AND the real deal is , you can't have it all ways. This is why you take your time making these life-altering decisions, go slow, be sure. You understand what you are giving up, will be leaving behind, what is going to change. Thus the saying 'nothing is perfect'. She got the 'perfect' guy (apparently) but his life is elsewhere, very removed from where hers was. She is the one who has to leave hers behind. Not into her tile issues. I am actually in the midst of painting my own place, doing some myself, hiring someone for the rest. THAT'S right, I have my own projects, lots of work, only have the weekends and just me to do them! And if I pick out the wrong color, guess I will just have to live with it!
Ok officially had it with my friend getting married to Internet guy. She called 3x today to ask if I would help pick out tiles for redecorating she is doing with his house. She was on her way to meet him to look at cabinets but needed help with tiles.
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