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Posted by Deb on 2/7/2007, 9:40 pm
I have been dating this man for the last five years prior to that I had been married to one husband for 34 years. Then I met Bruce well he told me he had prevous girlfriends but they always dumped him first.After the first year and a half we got engaged after I started dating another man because Bruce had been having a sexual relaionship with three different women all at different times for that year and a half I didn't find out about untill before we got engaged,I thought he would be faithful, but was I wrong. We would break up , then bruce would call and tell me he loved me and wanted to get back together that he was done seeing other women because he was in love with me and he would course be lying. I would beleive him, and this is how are relationship has been pretty much for the last five years. We just returned from a trip to Las vegas and the next day he called and said not to call him anymore.He has been sleeping with this women he met on line since the first of jan. and he was going to continue to see her. She doesn't have a job and her husband just died five months ago. It has been a week since I have talked to him . I'm depressed about how he never was honest with me. I'm glad it's over. I have just finshed the book "Men Who can't Commit" boy did that hit home! So now I have to stay strong and leave Bruce alone FOR GOOD this time. No phone calls no contact in any form. I made my mistake by believing in his lies everytime. My children didn't like him at all. He never wanted to attend any of my family get togethers that should have been a red flag for me. I have learned from this relationship and I'm just sorry it took me so long to see it for what it was. Has any one else had a similar experience? Please reply back.Deb
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