Posted by sophia
on 8/27/2009, 7:36 pm, in reply to "Truth"
Allen,
Unless you are told the whole truth now, you will probably never trust again. If your spouse wants to build a "new marriage", she must start by using what is called "radical honesty". That is truthfulness above and beyond. It means telling things that before would not be even be a factor. The reason that they must practice this is so they get in the honesty habit and thus you will learn to trust again. It takes time but it is very worth the effort. AS for her infidelity, she must tell you everything that you need to know without holding anything back. All this to say that at this time, truthfulness is essential to your relationship.
Sophia
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