Posted by sophia
on 7/2/2009, 8:01 pm, in reply to "New to Site"
Hi Chuck,
Almost all betrayers try to blame their spouse. The reality is that if the marital situation was so bad, they could have gone to a therapist, a clergyman, gotten a divorce etc. The only one who chose infidelity was them. YOU had no blame in that.
It is good that your wife is going to therapy, however, perhaps marital therapy would also be beneficial to both of you. Infidelity is one of the worst experiences that we can suffer, but if both partners work on recovery, a marriage can be built that is better than the "old one".
Good luck,
Sophia
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