Posted by Joy on 4/9/2009, 8:27 pm, in reply to "details"
This is very individual. You should be able to ask any question you need. Sometimes, what you imagine is so much worse than the reality. The "need to know" is common for many betrayed spouses.
Think about what you really need. Some of this crap stays in your head. But, like I said, we imagine the worst. Sometimes, we need those pieces of this puzzle our life has become. The things we do not know keep bouncing around in our head.
There is a letter, "the need to know" or "joseph's letter" that talks about the need to know. You will find it in FILES on the following yahoo group site. Simple to join, then look under FILES, then articles, then "The need to know". Not an active forum, but many articles saved in files.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AffairsTalk/
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