Posted by Lily on 3/5/2009, 1:16 pm, in reply to "How honest should I be about my feelings?"
There is a fine line between showing how hurt and angry it all makes you and killing the messenger. If you ask questions, then you must not be angry with her when she answers honestly however, the answers will hurt and they will make you angry, so you can express that but make sure she knows the reaction is to the new knowledge not toward her for being honest.
And be careful that you don't ask a question that will only cause you more pain than you wanted to have. Many questions, such as intimate details, probably won't help you or her and will haunt you forever so try not to ask those questions.
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