Posted by Tina K
on 2/25/2009, 10:05 am, in reply to "Re: taking back a cheating ex"
Lily: Yes things are moving along in a good way- and that is mostly because I am extremely busy with my son, college business, and my work(as a Counselor& a p/t Barber), and my religious affiliations. I am a 39 year old woman with a 7 year old son, I do desire to have a suitable mate to fit into my family, and I gather that it was being familiar with my ex that was comforting, however, after the act was committed, I felt immediate remorse for my actions. Why? Because it felt wrong! I had also had a ton of memories that were very disturbing. Visualizing the past negative encounters, about all of the pain, instability issues, and feelings of being inadequate. I recently talked to an elder at the congregation that I attend, about this isolated incident, and what could have been going through my mind to let this person back into my life in such a close and personal way. I haver made a decision not to re-marry my ex for more than just the reasons that were established in your previous response to me, but I have to be in total control of my life, and stopping negative choices that can hinder my ability to move on, and make positive choices in all aspects of my life. Thanks for listening, responding, and caring.
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