Posted by Lily on 2/21/2009, 12:56 pm, in reply to "Re: taking back a cheating ex"
Tina: You sound like your life is moving along in a good way. Whether it is love or the desire for things to be back the way they should be, getting over the emotions is the hardest part. You will probably always care about him, as you should since he is the father of your child.
Take what he offers as just that, an offer. Let him know he should be visiting his son regularly and paying his support regularly. See how he does on those things over a period of a year. If he wants you back, there is nothing stopping him from moving to live near you, doing all in his power to show you he would make a good and loving husband and father and getting himself into good financial shape so he has something to offer. If he is serious, he will do whatever is needed and will work on himself for as long as you want. If he won't do those things then he is not a good candidate for a new marriage.
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