Posted by Tina K
on 2/20/2009, 12:20 pm, in reply to "Re: taking back a cheating ex"
Lily: Oh Thankyou for responding to me. I have been really bummed out about this whole situation.I did divorce my husband, and showed us no love, no time, and no attention during this whole ordeal, and the only reason I think he misses us now is because he stands to lose, at every turn (mortgage, child support, bills, 401-k), and now he saying he wants to be married again. I got my BA degree shortly after our departure, have a condo in the suburbs, a new car, and our son is being cared for regulary with assistance from my parents that live in the same city that we live in. My husband lost his job, his car is falling apart, and he has to pay the mortgage on his own (with no assistance from me), mounting legal bills, knowing that his parental skills are questionable-to say the least- are now humbling milestones to do what he should have been doing all along! He is now offering us a "new" home, in a "new" city to start over--However I will decline when I am asked again because I do feek that he did not learn from his mistakes...I am sure that he has another woman SOMEWHERE, that is trying hard as I once did to keep his attention, and affection too. But I still am working things out to stop loving him. But I do still care about him.
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