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Posted by standupdude
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on 12/18/2008, 12:47 pm, in reply to "Strangest affair - help needed"
Dude
Crush that man with vicious intent. have no mercy or compassion do not be the good Christian on that one. If he makes a living doing this type of therapy make it your mission to stop him by any means necessary. Do not let anyone tell you that revenge does not fix anything or two wrongs don't make it write. That is bull cra#! GET EVEN! I had a wife who went to college night school and a fellow student got her into swinging and gang sex activity. I know exactly what is up in your mind. I divorced my wife and am putting plans into action to ruin the other man. Remember the rules of revenge, do not act out of anger. let some time pass to absorb it. Then act with a logical calm 3 dimensional mind. In regards to the emotional outbursts This is a form of PTSD, your mind is not processing the situation properly and you are in a playback loop. I had the same issue I just could not get the mental images of my wife going to hotel rooms and having sex with 2 or 3 men and women it was just overwhelming mentally. It will fade with time and the loneliness will invade your every fiber for a while. and you will more then likely divorce I am sorry for that but accept it now. I will never be happy and i will never be free, until I destroy the other man like he destroyed me! keep that in the back of your mind, good luck and good hunting
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