Posted by Sophia
on 11/24/2008, 7:44 am, in reply to "Re: letter"
Hi Sue,
I handled my rages very poorly for quite awhile.
At first, after the continuation of the affair was revealed, I went crazy. I threw wine in his face in restaurants, ripped up many of our old photos, drank too much, and ofcourse, screamed and yelled. (all this from a middle-aged nurse with grandchildren).
After we started major work on our marriage with a very excellent therapist, I was able to handle it better, but the "visuals" drove me nuts for some time.
It is now 10 years and there are no more "flashbacks". Ofcourse the memory is still there, but it doesn't hurt any longer and the affair and betrayal is put in its place as a small part of a big life together. Also, my husband continues to try to be the best husband that he possibly can.
What is happening in your recovery process now?
Regards,
Sophia
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