Posted by idiot on 11/13/2008, 3:40 pm
I am guilty of cheating on my wife for over the past year. My wife and I have had our share of problems that attributed to this but in the end I'm still the one who had the final choice on to do this or not. I informed my wife of the affair about 3 months ago and she stood by me the whole time saying we could overcome this. One hell of a woman I know. I still spent time with this other woman during the 3 months while I decided what I wanted I have decided that I want my wife more than anything and I have stop seeing this other woman. But now she has a male friend that she is so secretive about she hardly told me his name and doesn't discuss what they do when they go out. She won't even let me meet this person. I've told her that if she wants to pursue this to go ahead I will give her space if that's what she needs but she still says they are just friends. I want nothing more than to save my marriage but I don't know what to do about this guy. I have told her she is the one having the affair now. I trust her not to take it to the next level but her being so secretive about him is really starting to weigh on me and my trust in her. I know I have made my own bed and I'm prepared for whatever the outcome is but how do I deal with this? She has already told me that she is not going to stop talking to him even after I have expressed my dissatisfaction in her talking with him. All of our arguement include him now. Do I just ignore it and be grateful for the time I do get to spend with her?
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