Posted by Kateri
on 10/26/2008, 1:24 pm, in reply to "Re: Abandoning Ex suddenly calls my family to say he misses me...It's 3 yrs. later!"
Lily- Thanks for your wisdom... Yes, near the split up time things were not good. He blamed me in the typical way for why he would not deal with our co-parenting problem & split with someone he said "gets" his kids rebel factor. Overall, we were great as a couple but I had to protect my own daughters. He did add in the message that he wanted to know if myself & family was alright but since it was a message to my sister there was no sorries included. This is why you are so right and I am feeling super cautious and sent a card that seems like a "good luck" & "so long" hint. I guess that's why I wondered if I should do more... when also feeling now that I wished we were back for the better part of us. I suppose you are also right (even though the card discourages contact by being rather cold) that he could respond to my card if he cared enough. I guess I will just have to try to work on my own heartache and heal and find support with people like yourself. Thanks again for being there and if you have any further suggestions on what to read or focus on I really appreciate the input!
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