Posted by Lily on 9/22/2008, 10:35 am, in reply to "Re: my husband cheated on me"
Karen: the arrangement you describe, only because of money problems, is not the best thing to be doing. You are enabling him to continue in the A while not committing to either you or the OW for one thing. You are putting extreme stress on yourself and it sounds like you are doing this only because of money problems. Take a good look at the money problems, get some financial advice and kick him to the curb. The worst that happens financially is that you both start over and perhaps file bankruptcy. Then you start rebuilding your life and your credit but without the stress of having a cheating SP in the house. Let him figure out how to handle the issues he has caused, step back and get away from this situation. It can be done and would probably be so much better for you. You might also ask yourself why you are still hoping that this SP, who is mentally abusing you as well as having an A right in front of you, would come back to you? And why would you want him back?
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