Posted by Lily on 9/14/2008, 1:07 pm, in reply to "My Cheating Wife"
You did not state how long it has been since you found out but perhaps the councelor you used was simply not the right one? Even though your sons are grown they are still the children of both of you and then there are grandkids etc to consider so it is well worth making really sure this cannot be fixed before going for the divorce.
Do you tell your W how you feel? That is the place to start. If you have not told her what is in your mind then you cannot expect her to make changes when she may think every thing is fine.
That being said, if a good councelor cannot help you revive the love you and your W once had, then it may be best for both of you to move on. Please talk to your W and then if that gets nothing resolved then perhaps go for some one on one counceling to make sure it really is over for you. Once you no longer have anything left to give the relationship, you will be ready to make the next move. I will be wishing you good luck in whichever path you choose.
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