Posted by JohnnyB on 9/5/2008, 10:01 am, in reply to "my husband cheated on me"
First, let me say I am so sorry for your pain. I know it hurts, especially when you just find out. The confusion sets in and you are overwhelmed with emotions.
First thing I would do is get some counseling and take care of you. DOn't worry about how your H acts or feels. He's in a fog right now because he's "cool".
Betrayal by our spouse is the worst pain we can feel. There are times, and I'm coming up on three years, that I still feel the pain. It's going to take time and you have to heal.
I also suggest you both get marriage counseling. That is a necessity when betrayal occurs. It wil lhelp him come out of the fog somewhat and he will see how badly it hurts.
((((( )))))
Hang in there, Tara. There are some great folks on here who are always willing to listen.
John
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