Posted by Lily on 8/9/2008, 11:53 am, in reply to "Re: Strangest affair - help needed"
Confronting the OP always sounds like a great idea but usually turns out bad. You either get into a confrontation or the OP will tell you things that you don't want to hear and that may also be lies.
Have you talked to your W about the pictures in your mind? She may be able to tell you things that will make the true picture a lot more workable than the one your mind is imagining. Most of these sexual encounters are not really that wonderful when described in actual words and usually the BS is seeing things in their mind as exiting and wonderful for thier SP in the A, when the reality is the episodes were pretty hum drum and sordid when viewed in reality.
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