Posted by Lily on 8/1/2008, 11:04 am, in reply to "marriage"
Katie: Does your husband show any remorse and will he end the contact with this OW while you both do everything possible to save your marriage? Sometimes it takes quite a long time for a WS to totally end the yearning for the OP who has been part of their life for such a long time but he can succeed in this if he really wants his marriage to recover.
You need to get whatever support group for yourself that you can. Find a good therapist to talk to, have a close friend who will allow you to vent etc. Do not hide your pain, anger etc. from your H. He needs to see and participate in all the aspects of the damage he has caused if he is change. Do not run to divorce but remember that it is always an option for you down the road if he will not end the relationship and join you in therapy. The emotional affairs are sadly the hardest to deal with since the WS had invested all their thoughts and dreams in this fantasy and will often find it hard to come back into reality.
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