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Re: Strangest affair - help needed

Posted by Lily on 8/1/2008, 10:55 am, in reply to "Strangest affair - help needed"

I agree with Joy that going after that man in a court etc. will probably help you personally. In all aspects of recovery from a A revenge and anger are a large part of the issues and so going after him will eradicate some of those issues for you. The rest of your trauma is more the normal recovery problems and it kind of sounds like that your W is not working on that with you as the WS normally would be. I realize that she was influenced but then, all of them are in a way influenced by the OP and she really will need to have a understanding of your pain and help you recover. Have you tried marital counceling for this side of the problem?

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