Posted by Lily on 5/31/2008, 10:34 am, in reply to "coping with the affair"
Divorce is always an option that you have. Do you and your H have children? If so, I would think about working on the marriage to see if you can replace the indifference with some other emotion. Did you feel anger or pain at one time about this A and the child? Has your H tried to repair the damage he has caused you?
Even under any circumstances I always think the H and W should do everything in their power to repair the marriage before filing for divorce so there are no regrets later.
His having a child makes it harder than other A's but you can overcome it. The child must be considered as well as you and your family. You and any children you have would have to be able to accept the child as part of the family in some manner if it is to work.
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