Posted by Chloe on 4/3/2008, 5:01 am, in reply to "Re: My ex lover will not leave me alone...."
I would do all of the above. When the H of the OW found out about her A with my husband, he drove the 150 miles to our house to confront him. This followed on from days of phonecalls. I had a 2 year old a ew born at the time and we were just on our way out, luckly I saw him before he had a chance to do anything and I spent hours talking to him whilst sat in his car.
He eventually left but the phone calls still contnued. After that I went to the police and they paid him a visit and he was warned any further contact and he would be arrested. He never got in contact again...she did over the years but they had long since split up.
The thing about this though has nothing to do with an affair, this man seems to be obssessed and he could have that type of personality and so even if you were single, he would probably still be doing the same types of things and this sort of thing can get out of hand. I would contact police if he tries to contact you again.
The one good side to this is that it is a common goal for you and your H, it helped us to be n this together and working for the same outcome...it made us stronger.
My H affair was 9 years ago and we are still together, it hasn't been easy, but worth it...each day will make things easier.
take care
Chloe
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