Posted by Becky on 2/24/2008, 10:04 pm, in reply to "my husband cheated on myspace"
Well...
Since no one else is answering...
Emotional affairs, whether intercourse occurred or not, is very harmful to a marriage. It sounds as though your husband is confused about his feelings and does not fully see what he has done. He did not just type words, he broke the bonds of marriage. If he does not see that, then he is not fully ready to commit. Many cheating spouses do go through a time when they are more or less in a fog and cannot face what they have done. That could be because they simply do not want to admit that they are only sorry because they got caught, or they are unable to face the truth about themselves. Either way, if your husband cannot reach a point where he understands that he has broken his marriage vows and that he has devastated you, then you might as well pack it in and call a lawyer. He has to come to the realization of exactly what he has done and be able to admit it in order to begin healing the marriage. Make it VERY clear that you will not tolerate any more contact with the OW and then sit down and decide what actions the two of you want to take in order to save your marriage.
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