Posted by Sill on 1/8/2008, 10:52 am
Hello Everyone,
I just stumbled across this website and I am very happy it is here. I am 28yrs old and my significant other is 26 years old. We've been together for 5 and a half years. We have a beautiful daughter that just turned one last month.
On September 1st of 2007, he came home with a hickey on his neck. He swore up and down that nothing happened and this was some chick that he never saw before. And like a fool I believed him because I didn't think it was in his character to be a liar.
Well two months later and a 2 weeks before our wedding, I looked through his phone records and saw a number that I didn't recognize. He was calling her non-stop. 7 in the morning, 8 at night, no time too early or late. All times when either I was at work or he was at work.
After calling the number what seemed like 3,000 times, I spoke to the girl and found out that she worked with him and that day he came home with a hickey, they had sex. He lied and said they had sex in the parking lot of the job and she said it was at her house.
So it turned out that I didn't even know this man. We were apart for about a week and I let him back home with thoughts that we could work past it. It's been 2 months since I found out about it and I still hate him. I don't know what to do. I'm not sure if I feel out of love or if I'm just so hurt that I can't see what I really want.
Someone suggested couples counseling but i'm questioning if it's even worth it...
Thanks for listening to my story.
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