Posted by Help Me! on 11/28/2007, 7:58 pm, in reply to "Re: What else?: The Affair"
Thank you for your input Lily. That is exactly what I am trying to do right now. I am not usually an impulsive person, so I'm not going to react to my knee jerk reaction. I'm trying to step back and look at the big picture. My immediate goal is to get through the holidays with our family intact, and then see what the new year has to bring. Some of my friends think that is sick! Do you? The diagnosis does explain a lot, but does not let him off the hook. I'm willing to see how things pan out after some therapy and meds. But I have not made a definite decision. With his qualifications and experience in his profession, he could get a job anywhere in the country! But he refuses. I think he likes to have the option of going back to her if it doesn't work out with me. Right now, he's trying to manipulate me into taking him back by threatening to disappear and never see the girls again, if I leave him. He knows how important it is to me for the girls to have a father. I'm trying to figure out if I can call his bluff or not. It's all so messy, I could write for days, and still not tell the whole story. Thank you for your concern, it really helps!
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