Posted by Lily on 11/28/2007, 11:36 am, in reply to "What else?: The Affair"
If you can, hang tight for now until you can level out and take a more informed look at what is going on. Hopefully with counceling and meds he will become more able to comprehend how devastated you are and will be able to make promises to you that he will actually keep.
I am glad to hear that he is now coming home every night and that is what needs to continue. Is there any way he can get a job closer to home and where he would not have any access to the OW?
I understand he may have ADHD and BiPolar but just as one who uses alcohol, he must not be allowed to use that as an excuse for bad behavior. There are many people in this world with the same problems and they did not have affairs with OP.
Take care of yourself and the girls. Is there a safe person you can lean on? Vent when you need to since he needs to see the extreme pain and anger a BS is living in. Protect the girls from all this since they are so young and he will always be their dad even if you do decide to divorce.
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