Posted by Sharon on 11/7/2007, 4:59 pm
I found out about my husband's affair two months ago. I thought he told me everything and had promised not to see her anymore. He was lying. Turns out he was still seeing her. I e-mailed her and found out. I also discovered the following:
1. She has herpes and I need to get tested (something he never mentioned to me)
2. He cheated on her with another woman.
3. He had a sexual e-mail relationship with another person.
4. When he went to the Ukraine last year, he met up with another woman.
5. He lied to me about how long the affair with her lasted (off and on for three years) and that he was emotionally connected to her.
I believe I need to get a divorce. He had the opportunity to come clean and be honest but did not. He even hid the herpes from me which I believe is the gravest crime here. He kept it hidden for two months and continued to have unprotected sex with her.
I would like an opinion whether you think I am making the right decision.
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