Posted by Lost on 9/28/2007, 1:16 pm, in reply to "Re: (no subject)"
Lily, Thanks- The om's wife found out long ago and filed for a D, I belive it's final now. They do Work together He's district boss and I think they would both get canned but would cause her to leave me. I brought up my evidence in therapy and she lied said her freind and her knew I was spying and set me up to embarrass me. I don't think shrink bought it either and keeps stressing honesty. We've been at this for four months with only small progress- therapist says I'm codepentant and I'm starting to stand up for myself and set some expectations but I'm finding that I'm feeling less inclined to work on this. It's just not the woman I fell in love with anymore- I don't see her in there anymore. Is this a process that can take a year to show any signs of hope or should I set a shorter time frame to make a decission? I don't know if I'm going through a phase or I've just had enough. It's just so hard to think of them together and be in this. I love my little kids sooo much. I don't know what to think. Thanks guys for any comments Lost
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