Posted by Stan on 2/19/2007, 7:20 am, in reply to "Re: Is It Time To Leave ?" Thank you Joy for the information. I will look into both programs. Once, after learning of my wife's affair, I talked with Dr. Harley by email. What he said made sense. Perhaps his retreat would be a good one for us. Money will not be an issue but her willingness and desire to go may be a problem. The other program may also help. Years ago, when we were first married, I wanted us to go to a retreat which may be this same one, or a similiar one, but she said, "No, we can solve our marriage differences on our own". She has always been reluctant to open up her personal feelings to others. During our joint counseling sessions,she would always keep her coat on and her arms crossed. This was very unusual for her, as she is normally very open, outgoing and friendly with others. Guess emotionally you would call her a very private person. Over time she has said that her affair was a very serious mistake on her part. I must say at this point in our marriage, I seem to be running out of steam. Often it seems it would just be easier to leave, but I don't want to. Deep inside I love my wife very much, or perhaps better put, I love what we once had. Thanks for your advice. Stan
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