Posted by Abby on 2/17/2007, 9:00 pm, in reply to "Should his wife know?"
I know there are differing opinons on this, but by telling his wife, you are putting yourself in the middle of a situation, I was going to say 'is not your business' but what i really mean is that telling the OP's spouse is not going to benefit your own marriage and that is really all you are responsible for. It may make you feel better in the short run, because by telling the OP's spouse, you're sort of exacting revenge. don't bother yourself with it. Keep focused on your feelings and the work that needs to be done for yourself and your own marriage. The OP sounds like scum and his wife may already know about things.
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