Posted by Stan on 2/17/2007, 2:06 am When confronted, she denied everything, but eventually admitted they were lovers. They have not seen each other since "D" day ... or so she says, but does one ever know. She explained that he did a much better job, than I, of meeting her needs. Yes, she did pay for the trips to see him, as well as the meals and hotel rooms, but he listened and praised her for her business success. Looking back, in many ways he is very much like her father who died years ago from drinking. Perhaps she was just filling her need to be with her father, by being with him. Our life now is no different than it has been for years ... a very lonely one for both of us. Once we tried counseling, but she hated it, as she always felt like the guilty one. For Valentine's Day, I bought her some gifts that she wanted, a beautiful card and made dinner. Her contribution to a nice romantic evening ... Well she did say thank you. Guess my questiion is ... if this is all our marriage can be ... isn't it time to move on. Our children are adults, so that is not an issue. It would be nice to be happy again. Your thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks. Stan
Is it time to leave? For many years, my wife had a very romantic affair with a friend of years ago.
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