Posted by gwen on 2/15/2007, 8:52 am, in reply to "Re: Show I leave or Should I stay?" What do you think?
Lily, thank you for your advice. It has been very useful for me and caused me to do some deep thinking. I am definitely going to make use of your advice. I realize now that the end result has to be divorce, but not until I do some of the things you recommended. I tried speaking with him this morning about him not showing up for the second conseling session, and he blew up on me. He said I should go ahead and re-file the divorce if that is what I want and stop harassing him. Then,when he was leaving for work he said "Just love your husband and stop being so mean" What about my feelings? Doesn't he think I have any? He said I should have reminded him about the session, do you think I should have? I feel if our marriage is as important as he says it is to him, he should keep the date and time at the front of his mind without me having to remind him.
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