Posted by sophia You are very wise to take control of you life. You are also very strong. Do not be afraid to show him your anger and pain when they come around. He must realize what impact on you and your marriage his actions have. Our marriage had reached such a low point at the time of the affair that my husband felt it didn't matter to me what he did. He really believed that I had stopped caring about him. So, do not be afraid to show emotion and how you are feeling about him.
on 2/2/2007, 7:22 pm, in reply to "Re: changes"
Jill,
Because he hasn't really opened up and confessed to what his feelings were, you two are still circling around that issue. I would be much more comfortable if he sat down with you and started an honest dialog about that time in his life. Then you two can pick up the pieces and build something strong. Without total honesty, there is still that space between you that secrets create. Don't give up seeking truth.
Sophia
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