Posted by jacksjill on 2/1/2007, 9:47 am, in reply to "Re: changes"
thanks for your replies. He does know how much I had/have been hurt by all this. We argued and fought for months, with many tears. I'm not saying I'm over "it", but I'm not living like I did for months, it was torture. If he won't admit it, I have to do something...so I decided to move on. But I'm not moving on with blinders on or my eyes closed, they are wide open believe me! I have tried to change my outlook, and put the blame where the blame belongs, on him, not her. Of course she has a part in this, but as I said, I'm not married to her! I will be watching and listening for any action from her. I'm watching and listening to him, very closely. I just don't make him aware that I'm watching. I have changed my attitude as far as crying and being a big lump of emotions. I have taken control back in my life, what he does will determine if we stayed married or not.
Thank you so much for all your input and words of encouragement, it has really helped get through this horrible personal time in my life!!
I will keep you posted.....
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