Posted by Joy on 1/27/2007, 9:49 pm, in reply to "he won't admit it" Who knows just how far this has gone or if it has become physical...but an EMOTIONAL affair can be just as damaging to a marriage. The following yahoo group has some articles in FILES that might be helpful. It's simple to join, then look for "Finding the truth". Many tips as to ways cheaters try to cover up their tracks. It will be a difficult road. Seek some counselling, both individual and marriage. Find a counsellor that is certified in marriage counselling, not just one that does everything as it is different. Some have to try more than one. There are many links and other helpful articles there. A good book "Not Just Friends" by S. Glass. Take care, Joy
Unfortunately, your husband has some classic red flag behavior of someone who is having an affair.
They become detached, often villianizing the family and spouse to make themselves feel better, have unaccountable time, etc.
Its a shame that you have this need, but your family is at stake. Often, once an affair is exposed, the fantasy is distroyed and it falls apart.
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