Posted by Lily on 1/27/2007, 11:05 am, in reply to "Re: My husband Cheated. AGAIN"
Don't expect her to just vanish. My H's last OW hung in with phone calls and emails for months until she finally gave up. They seem to convince themselves that the WS really wants them but the BS is stopping them from being with them. Your H needs to be the one to take a firm stand and never waver. If she calls again, he should take the phone and tell her clearly to stop contacting him and you, that he loves you and does not want to hurt you any more. Going to the work place after she has asked you to not contact her can be called harrassment legally in many states especially since you are deliberately going out of your way to go to a place you would not normally be. Plus, it just gives her an excuse to play "poor little me" and tell your H and others how scared she is of you. Don't give her the ammunition. Ignore her since she is not worth the attention. What counts now is what your H does and how he behaves.
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