Posted by Lily on 1/22/2007, 10:56 am, in reply to "he won't admit it"
I do have to agree with Sophia that you need proof so you can force the issue with your H. It may be too late to catch them together since he may have ended the relationship for fear of you actually leaving him but I would lay low for a while then, if you feel they are seeing each other, hire someone to prove it. To me your story sounds like so many that other BS tell, including me. There is often nothing but a gut feeling someone is not right, they will usually buy new clothes and perhaps start watching their weight, they will initially speak about the OP often but may stop mentioning them if they think the BS is suspicious. All the classic symptoms were there in your H. He will likely deny over and over and try to make you appear jealous and foolish. You need solid proof and then he still may deny.
Would he go to marital counceling with you? It could help you breakthrough the barriers he is building. And that is exactly what is going on; he has built a wall between you.
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